First u must know u need her more then anything 

second no matter what says no u say yes and dont 

be a dick be as patient as possible back off and 

retreat but dont  give up in your mind and heart

u can be in your space and express feelings about 
some one you can pray and affirmate you can do so

much thats knot directly bothering them and well if

u got there attention at all they might be checking u 

out so if they are and they see u love them still and 

are ranting on about them dont plan this let it come to 

u let this be a idea to help deal with the fact your alone

and u need some one and this one  makes the most sense

to you